5 Wedding Night Tips for Virgin Girls

Whether they acknowledge it or not, most virgin girls look forward to their wedding night. As the awaited day approaches most virgins to tend to develop anxiety and stress gets even higher when the bride is a virgin. She will be tormenting herself with numerous rhetorical questions like whether she will bleed during her first sexual intercourse and there is nothing that slows down her excited nerves despite receiving advice from her friends. Under these scenarios, it would be wise to prepare her so as to relieve her nervousness. Below are the wedding night tips for virgin girls:

The first night is not always about sex

Most people think that the first night of the wedding is all about sex between the couples, but this may not be true. Girls are excited about making love to their husbands on the first opportunity. You may or may not have sex on your wedding night. So you shouldn’t feel depressed if it doesn’t happen.

Stay relaxed

Virgin girls are anxious on their first wedding night and their tension keeps on rising. But it’s better for them to stay calm and relaxed so as to be in a better position to enjoy one of the most important nights of their married life. Having a sober mind will give them a chance to express their feelings to their bridegrooms. Make your first night more memorable by having pleasurable sex with your partner.

​It’s okay to feel awkward

To the virgin girls, doing sex for the first time may pose different experience, as it may seem awkward or pleasurable and there is nothing that can psychologically prepare you for this. Girls need to be prepared on this matter and have an open-minded for any surprises which may bed pleasing or hurting.

Bleeding is not a must

Majority of people has the belief that when a woman is having sex for the first time she must bleed because her hymen is torn apart. What people fail to understand is that the hymen may break due to a variety of reasons, besides sex. Vigorous physical activities such as horse riding or cycling may cause the hymen to break. So, virgin girls shouldn’t be worried, if they fail to bleed on their wedding night when having sex with their partners as its normal.

You may not have an orgasm

Most girls who do sex regularly not all times they experience orgasm when making love. But virgin girls may fail to reach orgasm easily when having sex for the first time due to anxiety to make their partners happy. You don’t have to be stressed if you don’t have an orgasm on your first wedding night as its a normal thing.

Use protection

Virgin girls should be aware that they can get pregnant when having sex for the first time on their wedding night. So if you want to avoid getting pregnant you may consider using protection such as contraceptive pills or a condom. Getting pregnant on your first wedding night isn’t something that many virgin girls are happy with.